Sunday, October 28, 2007

Anxiety

6 months have passed since my last post. A lot of things happened and
a lot of things have been done for the preparation. There are still a
number of things to do and some issues to decide on. Small details
as they are, I still can't seem to calm down. Pre-wedding jitters? ^_^;;

Wedding jitters or not though, here's one of the reasons why I can't
keep calm. It appears I am not yet a certified Christian. By that I
mean I don't have a proper baptismal certificate. ^_^;; It kinda
follows that I haven't had the sacrament of Confirmation too yet. Partly
because of this, our December vacation would have lesser idle time than
I could have wished for.

We only have 2 months to go. So little time, but I hope we could make
up for it when we get home. See you guys at the wedding. (",)

Thursday, October 25, 2007

It is 2 month's away and we still have a very big list of things to do and plan before the wedding. Hopefully we finish everything soon. :)

Thursday, September 06, 2007

i hear wedding bells ringing!!!

it is less than four months to go for our wedding and we still have so many things to arrange and plan. jon is taking care of the song list and the menu. while i'm taking care of the flowers and of course my wedding gown. ;) hehehe i'm happy that we are planning this together. i don't think i can do it by myself.

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i'm so excited for our pre-nup pictorial this december. i am still not decided if we are doing it in UP or doing it someplace else. we definitely want to be close to nature and i'm sure we will enjoy the experience. i have been exchanging emails with mimi and have been having fun planning this. i will post the pictures here afterwards. ;)

Monday, April 16, 2007

A Date With The Wedding Planner - Day 2

Day 2 wasn't as hectic as day 1 as our only travel itinerary was in Makati to meet our gown/barong designer for the wedding. I met with Cha at McDonalds Quezon Avenue cor. Edsa then we drove to Makati in her classic Benz. It took as about an 45 minutes to get to our destination.

We were welcomed by Joel Bautista's assistant in his office. It really surprised me when I learned that Joel Bautista actually has an MD degree. I can't place which one is his hobby, doctoring or designing. Nonetheless, I was impressed. ^_^

Taking my measurements took less than 5 minutes. I haven't decided on the design for my barong yet but so far, among the samples Joel has shown me, I picked two. I'm still waiting for more sample designs from Joel right now before making my final choice.

That's about the core activity for day 2. Since my schedule that day was also packed to the brim, we've decided to discuss the other wedding concerns by phone and text messaging throughout the remainder of the week.

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Looking back at the target tasks to accomplish I posted before my vacation ....

1.) First communion
2.) Meet cha for discussions regarding wedding concerns
3.) food tasting
4.) get my measurements taken for my wedding getup
5.) inform our primary sponsors that they are our primary sponsors

I failed to accomplish task #1. As I thought, it was impossible to find a church that offers to give this sacrament in such a short notice. On top of that it was also a busy week for the church as we were in the middle of the Holy Week.

4 out of 5 major tasks were accomplished yet we are still behind schedule. Cha reassured me that all the remaining items to take care of for the wedding are already minor ones. I guess it means those concerns do not need to be addressed immediately. >_< I still can't help but feel uneasy though. There are still a lot of things to do.

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Targets by end of April

Final Drafts for the ff:
1.) Entourage/Sponsors
2.) Guest List

Research:
1.) Invitation Design
2.) Musicians for ceremony and reception

Issues:
1.) Lighting for the garden reception

Wednesday, April 11, 2007

A Date With The Wedding Planner - Day 1

It sure is hot in the Philippines during summer. Nevertheless, I've enjoyed every minute of my short vacation. Met a lot of friends, caught up with family matters, stories and issues, and of course, spent time working on our wedding preparations.

A couple of days before my vacation, Cha and I agreed on spending 2 whole days together for planning and bonding time (",). The activities were not well planned but the most important tasks to be done during those two days were 1.) conduct an occular with cha at the wedding and reception sites, 2.) food tasting courtesy of our chosen caterer, and lastly 3.) measurement taking for my barong.

Day 1 with Cha covered the first two tasks. We had a sort of a fun (or should I use the term funny instead) trip on our way to the occular site. We took a wrong turn and ended up passing by Tagaytay to get to Silang Cavite. ^_^;; I'm really not that inclined to observe and memorize the roads I pass especially if I'm just a passenger at the backseat. That day I learned my lesson.

Visiting La Salette for the 2nd time, our first target was the chapel. When we set foot inside, the first thing I noticed was Cha going into her own private world.....walking slowly and looking at all the details of the chapel as if calculating something. As to be expected, she was already compiling mental images of the wedding ceremony. If you don't know or haven't noticed through the pictures, The La Salette chapel has a unique shape. Cha already envisioned the entrance of the entourage as well as Mel's grand entrance too. It's going to be dramatic though a bit challenging for our photographers. ^_^ (Wanna see how it turns out? Better be present during our wedding. :-D)

Chapel done, we went to see Sister Mirna to inquire about the possible rooms that we could use to stay the night before the wedding. We have the option of staying at some hotel in Tagaytay but Fr. Sal (Mel's uncle) offered that we could use the rooms they have that is usually utilized for retreats. So we went and took a peek to see if the rooms were adequate for a bride to be on the night before her wedding. Of course with her make-up artists, photographers and all. It should also be good enough for the groom but since the bride's requirements are almost always higher than the groom's.....hehehe ^_^. Investigation results : the rooms in the Jubilee Center building are good enough based on my (and Cha's) opinion. It'll still be all upto Mel's decision though once she sees the pictures.

Next is the reception site. One look at the Pilgrimage Center (gymnasium type building), Cha said there's no way we're going to have the reception in there. ^_^;; Well, she didn't actually say that straight to my face but I kinda felt she would have said that if we were good buddies. Hehe, she made do with changing the topic to "sayang naman, nasa garden na tayo tapos gymnasium reception yung gagawin", hehehe.

So there we go, instead of sticking with the original plan of having the wedding around lunch time and staying under the shade of the Pilgrimage Center during the reception, we moved the time of the wedding to 4 pm. ^_^ And now we have a garden reception to look forward too. Yep, can't wait to see how it turns out. La Salette does have impressively vast and fairly beautiful grounds.

Moving on, we went back to Bicutan and met with my Mom and my younger brother before going to the food tasting place. It took some minutes to prepare the presentation and the food so I had some time to take pictures of the sample arrangements of tables and decors offerred by Mrs. Cortes and co. (our caterer for the wedding).

I was expecting to have a taste of all the offered dishes in their menu. It was a bit discouraging when I learned that that was not the general case during food tastings. In any case, the food we were served with were great. For a rating from A to E A being the highest, I'll give it a B. The Oriental buttered chicken and Roast Beef Tips with some sort of gravy tasted really good. What worries me is that my younger brother made a remark that the food tasted like my Mom's cooking. So it's either my mom can really cook restaurant quality dishes, or the opposite which means.......anyway, I just hope it's the latter. Haha! ^_^;;

Sunday, April 08, 2007


i am thinking about including a chocolate fountain for our wedding. hahaha i love chocolate and it has been a big part of my life. bwahahaha... though i'm pretty sure i won't be able to eat anything from it during our wedding...but i really love looking at one flowing abundantly [looking dreamy ^_^]... hahaha

jon will be updating soon with the happenings of preparing our wedding during his trip in pinas. can't wait for that... i only know bits and pieces of it... hehehe


Monday, April 02, 2007

flowers and jumping

i have this urge of jumping into a plane to manila. jon is there right now. aside from i really want to be with him, i really wish that i can go home and prepare our wedding myself. (but if i do go home i don't know if i can still afford a wedding, i'll probably just elope)

he is scheduled to spend quality time with our wedding coordinator. i hope everything goes well. i'm always bugging him for details and also for things that he shouldn't forget. hahaha and at the same time i can't get enough of hearing his voice even though i usually throw tantrums while we are talking. i hate being away from him.

right now, i am thinking about the flower arrangements that i want to see in our wedding - listing down the flowers that i like and thinking if everything will go well together. hehehe i even asked jon to go to dangwa to check out the flowers there that is if he still has time. he will only be in manila for a week and then fly back to japan.

yey, 9 months before the wedding...